Gathering Your Tribe
"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel all alone." Robin Williams
"I want to be surrounded by energies that love and support me." Wow! Doesn't that sound selfish! Say it again. "I want to be surrounded by energies that love and support me." Has someone ever given you a gift that you don't especially like yet you keep it anyway? Why? Do you consistently let negative people into your home and then pay the consequences of negative thoughts afterwards? Why? Are there people in your life that constantly demean and diminish your ideas, thoughts and goals? Why? "I want to be surrounded by energies that love and support me."
Self worth. You are worth only the best. You feed the things you love the most with only the best. You give your children your very best. You give your animals your very best. You give your plants your very best. You give your lover the very best. You give your friends the very best. YOU DESERVE THE VERY BEST. How can you give out your very best if you don't put it in? You need to fill yourself with the very best so that you can give it. Decide that you love yourself the most. Nobody else can love you the most because they need to love themselves the most. You've done things, I know, we all have, punishment is over, you know that you deserve love.
You deserve a good nights sleep. You deserve beautiful healthy food. You deserve to wear whatever clothes you want. You deserve to be celebrated, to be loved, and to be enjoyed for all of the beautiful gifts you have been given. Are there people in your life that celebrate your gifts? Think about it. Whose company do you leave feeling better than before? Who fills you up? This is your tribe. This could be a human, an animal, or even a place. The more of these you have in your life and the less of the opposite the more successful you will be. Do you want to be the best mom that you can be? Surround yourself with people who make you feel good. Do you want to be the next president of your company, an architect, a professor, or a horse trainer? Surround yourself with supporters, cheerleaders, lovers.
"I want to be surrounded by energies that love and support me." Guess what not all of them will. We are all on a different journey, we are all on a different energy level. Not everyone will be your cheerleader. Maybe someone you have been friends with forever is not loving and supportive of you. That doesn't mean that they are bad, it doesn't mean that one of you is right and the other is wrong. What it means is that you are not meant to be in each others lives right now. There is no need to have a falling out, or a talk, merely setting the intention to only be surrounded by those that love and support you will let those who don't either rise to the challenge or fade away. We are not here to please everyone else. We are here to fulfill our journey, to work on ourselves.
"I want to be surrounded by energies that love and support me."
Gather your tribe, surround yourself with the people who are willing to fill you with love and support.
Love and Light